Lolisa Gibson

Lolisa Gibson

 New York City, New York, USA
BandSpoken Word

The DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? speakers are young people living with HIV or AIDS. The DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? lecture is encouraging young people to know their status, end discrimination against those living with the disease and share what they learn with someone they know--all without using fear.

Biography

Lolisa’s childhood was full of fun and adventure. Though she was the second oldest of four children living in the house, Lolisa often took the role as the oldest. Lolisa and her family attended church on a regular basis. Lolisa, on her own, often went to church five days out of the week.

Lolisa and her friends often talked about and had crushes on boys, but they all were too shy to actually talk to them. She and her two closest friends made a pact that they would not have sex with a boy until the night of their high school prom. By the age of fifteen Lolisa’s friend had broken the pact and she soon followed. Together they went to get birth control to prevent a pregnancy, however they weren’t concerned about HIV.

Lolisa continue to dedicate her time to school, writing poetry and attending church all of which were things that gave her joy and happiness. In the fall of 2003 at the age of sixteen, Lolisa started to feel ill. The discomfort turned into uncontrollable pain and when it had reached a breaking point her mother carried her into the hospital, demanding answers. After a week, seeing countless doctors and having multiple tests, the doctors learned the cause of Lolisa’s pain — esophagitis. Lolisa was released from the hospital at ninety-five pounds and was able to continue life as she knew it before she got sick.

Unfortunately, the freedom was short lived and she found herself back in the hospital. Lolisa’s doctor suggested that she have an HIV test. She knew nothing about the virus except her aunt had died from complications from AIDS a year earlier and that Lolisa was not living with HIV. Her mother refused to give consent for her daughter to have the test. Lolisa, not concerned about the result, signed the forms after learning she was old enough to do so.

Lolisa started to feel better and went back to living her life. On January 20, 2004 the phone rang and she learned news that would change her life forever. Lolisa, with her mother on the other phone, learned she was HIV positive. The next day, together, they visited a clinic to learn more about the disease she was living with. Lolisa learned that the high level of virus in her blood indicated that the virus had been with Lolisa for at least ten years and that her mother should be tested also. It was at that point that Lolisa’s learned her mother was living with HIV and the conclusion was made that Lolisa most likely was born with the virus.

Lolisa immediately took an active approach in her own life by educating herself on what it means to be HIV positive. After coming to a place of peace with her diagnosis, she aimed to educate others and started at home by speaking with friends and family. Lolisa knew the power of her voice and today speaks with everyone and anyone she can, even with the fear of stigma and discrimination.

2011-12

Discography

The DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? lecture includes:
- an informative HIV and AIDS 101.
- the speaker sharing their story of being diagnosed and living with the disease.
- time for questions and answers creating a dialogue with the students.

Hope's Voice provides each school with:
- DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? handouts.
- the GET FEEDBACK report collected from surveys distributed at the event.
- a glossy and eye-catching electronic DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? promotional kit.
- the opportunity to order DOES HIV LOOK LIKE ME? t-shirts (at discounted rate) for the programming board.

2011-12